90/10 PRINCIPLE

Author: Stephen Covey

Discover the 90/10 Principle.
It will change your life (at least the way you react to the situations).

What is this principle?
The 10% of life is made up of what happens to you and another 90% of life is decided by how you react.

What does this mean?
We really have no control over 10% of what happens to us. We cannot stop the car from breaking down. The plane will be late arriving, which throws our whole schedule off. A driver may cut us off in traffic. We have no control over this 10%.

The other 90% is different. You determine the other 90%.
How?……By your own reaction. You cannot control a red light. But you can control your reaction. Don't let people fool you; YOU can control how you react.

Let's use an example.
You are eating breakfast with your family. Your daughter knocks over a cup of coffee onto your business shirt. You have no control over what just happened. What happens next will be determined by how you react. You curse. You harshly scold your daughter for knocking the cup over. She breaks down in tears. After scolding her, you turn to your spouse and criticize her for placing the cup too close to the edge of the table. A short verbal battle follows. You storm upstairs and change your shirt. Back downstairs, you find your daughter has been too busy crying to finish breakfast and get ready for school. She misses the bus. Your spouse must leave immediately for work. You rush to the car and drive your daughter to school. Because you are late, you drive 40 miles an hour in a 30 mph speed limit.

After a 15-minute delay and throwing $60 traffic fine away, you arrive at school. Your daughter runs into the building without saying goodbye. After arriving at the office 20 minutes late, you find you forgot your briefcase.

Your day has started terrible. As it continues, it seems to get worse and worse. You look forward to coming home.When you arrive home, you find small wedge in your relationship with your spouse and daughter.

Why??????? … Because of how you reacted in the morning.

Why did you have a bad day?
A) Did the coffee cause it?
B) Did your daughter cause it?
C) Did the policeman cause it?
D) Did you cause it?

The answer is "D".

You had no control over what happened with the coffee. How you reacted in those 5 seconds is what caused your bad day. Here is what could have and should have happened.

Coffee splashes over you. Your daughter is about to cry. You gently say, "Its ok honey, you just need to be more careful next time". Grabbing a towel you rush upstairs. After grabbing a new shirt and your briefcase, you come back down in time to look through the window and see your child getting on the bus. She turns and waves. You arrive 5 minutes early and cheerfully greet the staff. Your boss comments on how good the day you are having.

Notice the difference?

Two different scenarios. Both started the same. Both ended different.

Why?
Because of how you REACTED. You really do not have any control over 10% of what happens. The other 90% was determined by your reaction.

Here are some ways to apply the 90/10 principle.
If someone says something negative about you, don't be a sponge. Let the attack roll off like water on glass. You don't have to let the negative comment affect you! React properly and it will not ruin your day. A wrong reaction could result in losing a friend, being fired, getting stressed out etc.

How do you react if someone cuts you off in traffic? Do you lose your temper? Pound on the steering wheel? A friend of mine had the steering wheel fall off. Do you curse? Does your blood pressure skyrocket? Do you try and bump them? WHO CARES if you arrive ten seconds later at work? Why let the cars ruin your drive? Remember the 90/10 principle, and do not worry about it.

You are told you lost your job. Why lose sleep and get irritated? It will work out. Use your worrying energy and time into finding another job.

The plane is late; it is going to mangle your schedule for the day. Why take outpour frustration on the flight attendant? She has no control over what is going on. Use your time to study, get to know the other passenger. Why get stressed out? It will just make things worse.

Now you know the 90-10 principle. Apply it and you will be amazed at the results. You will lose nothing if you try it. The 90-10 principle is incredible. Very few know and apply this principle.

The result
Millions of people are suffering from undeserved stress, trials, problems and heartache. We all must understand and apply the 90/10 principle.

It CAN change your life!!!

Apsal yeik ????

Ntahlah, dah 3 hari mencobe download gambor adek ipor kawin tapi maseh takleh. Nak kata tak masyuk software, dah masyuk kan dah tapi maseh takleh. Dah 5 kali cobe masyuk kan.

Dah naik menyampah dah kat kamera tuh. Rasa cam nak humban kuar tingkap jer kamera Canon tuh. Tapi sayang lak pasal baru beli minggu lopeh (lepas)...heheheheheeeeee!!!!!! Tak tahu apsal yeik. Rasa cam rugi lak beli kamera canggih nih.......

Baik aku pakai kamera samsung lama aku. Pakai filem pun pakai filem lah. Janji leh amek gambor. (cobe carik gambor kamera tu, tapi rasa dah obselete kot. Letak lambang samsung jadiklah)......Jgn marah yeik NBK. Kem salam maut kat samsung.

Nak citer sket pasal kamera samsung ku. Kamera nih dpt masa tahun 2001 masa ku dan kengkawan maseh di samsung. Kamera nih hadiah tempat pertama "treasure hunt" dari senawang ke bukit tinggi. Ku sekereta dpt tempat pertama....Betapa kembangnye hidong ku ini sbb dapat tempat pertama. Geng-geng bakob lain yg lembeb itu hanya dapat menang hamper sahaja.....heheheheeheeee....

Masa tuh jugak lah aku lagi kembang semangkok sbb oghang umah aku ade skali.Sesama naik 1 keter. Keter satria power aku lah. Keter sape lagi......

p/s:Oghang umah aku maseh awek lagi masa nih....ekekekekkeeeeekkk....

jadi tulah sejarah kamera samsung ku yg sampei ke hari ini aku maseh mencarik anak beranak sbb tak jejumpa... Maklumlah, ku baru pindah umah. Tak tau lam kotak mana satu....Pueh mencarik....

p/s : Kat manalah kao wahai kamera ku!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Dan nak cerita kat korang sumer, pepehal (apa-apa hal) besok Nogori Sembilan coti-coti Malaysia pasal Thaipusam. Marilah kita beramai-ramai ke Batu Caves pi pecah kepala...eihhhhhh......pecah kelapa!!!!!!!!



Ku amek coti hari jemaat. Jadi dapatlah coti 4 hari dr khamis sampei ahad... Nak berehat di rumah pasal penat kenduri kawin adek ipar ku tak habeh-habeh lagi. Penat betul lah... Tetamu ramai!!!!!!!

p/s : yeeehaaaaa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

SEBUAH KISAH

Al-kisah nak cerita.

Di satu pagi yg hening di sebuah desa yg teramatlah damai nye kehidupan. Duit Seringgit berjalan-jalan di sekitar kampong nak menghirup udara segar nan nyaman.


Tetiba Duit Seringgit telah bertemu dengan Duit Lima Puluh Ringgit dan lalu bertanya: "Oit,lama tak nampak ko, mana ko pergi?" sibuk sangat kaa?"

Duit Lima Puluh pon menjawab " Aku pergi merata-rata dan banyak tempat. Pergi stadium tgk bola, Naik STAR Cruise, gi KK naik AirAsia, lepak One Utama, Konsert mingguan AF, M'sian Idol...... tempat2 cam tuh lah.

Eh, ko camner lak?" bertanya si Duit Lima Puluh kepada Duit Seringgit...........

Duit Seringit menjawab perlahan seraya menunduk,
"Hmm..biasa lah..... Balik-balik tempat yg sama.... surau, masjid, surau, masjid...... ".

Duit Lima Puluh hanya diam membisu........



p/s: Renungkanlah.......

FAMILY DAY part 1

CHECK-IN TIME

Nak citer sket pasal family day kita orang yg telah berlangsung pada 20(sabtu) & 21(ahad) jan hari tu di Tiara Beach Resort, PD... kami kena stay sana 1 malam. Fully sponsor by the company.....kira gi sana bawak badan ngan pakaian jer lah....heheheheeeeeee....

Check-in pukul 12.30 tghari...menyibuk gi beli pelampong dulu tuk boy kat batu 7 telok kemang...yg kakak dah ade pelampong..beli masa dia baby dulu...dah dekat 4 tahun.....so,kira oklah pelampong die. tahan sampei skang...aku pilih and beli yg jenis tebal-tebal sket....biar mahal tapi tahan lama.....

So, this year company buat dedekat je. buat kat PD. selalu buat jejauh, bebudak komplen jauh sangat mcm kat Bukit Merah, Cherating. kalu Genting and A' Famosa, Melaka dah selalu sangat... pastu kompeny pon bising pasal keesokan hari nye bebudak ramai mc tak datang keje.....heheheheeeeee!!!!!!!

untuk semua staff dapat bilik studio jer(gambor bilik takdolah).......yg boss-boss dpt dok epartment.......tak aci betul....

nasib baik anak aku 2 orang jerk....takdelah sesak sangat bilik tuh....tapi kira oklah, dia ade 2 single bed...tv ade.... hot shower ade....cattle ade...shoe rack ade......heheheeeeee...

yg bawak anak 6 orang, nak kena bawak toto sendiri...kesian dorang..........

MAKAN TIME

dah simpan barang kat bilik, gi makan dulu kat dia nye cafe......

gambar kat atas ni salah satu hiasan air pancut yg ade kat situ....ade memacam jenis lagi..ni saiz yg paling besau..my boy suka lah kat mende ni sampei dia lak nak tejun lam tuh.....itu bukan swimming pool lah, abang!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! jerit aku... aku sempat snap gambor nih jap.....

air pancut nih kat sebelah tmpt makan je...sesambil mkn, tengok air pancut.cuci mata tengok orang lau-lalang lagi...heheheeeeeeeeeeeeeeee..

lunch not bad.......sedap gak menu nye..........macam-macam adaaaaaaaaaaaa..............

tak sempat nak bergambar ngan makanan...dah habeh baru ingat...ahaksssssss........

MANDI TIME

gambor di atas salah satu daripada tempat games yg resort ade....ni kira port anak aku lah.....anak aku dah tak nyenyabar lagi dah...cecepat dia ajak mandi sampei nagis guling-guling kat lam bilik...bawak jelah turun.melepaks kat sini dari kul 2 tghari sampei kul 4.30 petang... tak ke hitam dibuat nye....matahari tgh terpacak kat atas paler....

p/s : nanti aku dan anak-anak citer kat part 2.......gambor penoh lom download lagi....

MINUM PETANG

hampir terlupe sepatut nye sumer kena berkumpul gi minum petang kul 4.30 petang....terleka tul aku gan anak-anak. sibuk mandi sampei lupo minam potang.aku sampei sini pun dah pukul 5.30 petang. oghang dah tak ramai...so, takyah nak berebut-rebut.makanan pun not bad.....lg sekali aku lupo nak snap gambor makanan.......

gambar ni semasa acara sampingan masa minum petang.....kami di hiburkan oleh band kompeni merangkap band majlis kawin, makan malam, konvokesyen dan sebagainye...dan yg tengah makan microphone tu aku nye assisstant officer kat department.....dia kira leader tuk band nih..

dia ni mmg penyanyi tuk syarikat..so, memang muko dio jolah yg nyanyi....orang lain sumer kena ketepi....heheheeeeee.. kalu pertandingan karaoke, diolah yg jadik champion....org lain takleh carik makan....hampeh tul!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! aku baru nak tunjuk aku nye talent......heheheeee...

p/s : masa nih aku tgh sedap melantak makanan...maklumlah anak beranak kelaparan......
jadik tak dapat amek gambo lain.....

Tetiba kuar lak si badut nih...sorang buat nagic, sorang lagi buat belon.....yg buat belon tuh teruk kene kejakan dek anak aku.....sampei 4 kali kakak mintak die buat belon..kejap jadi anjing lah, senapang lah, hammer lah dan bermcm-mcm lagi...... sampei mamat tu kehabisan idea..

p/s : boy aku tgh lelap di pangkuan...kepenatan berenang gamak nye......kakak bebas membuat aktiviti sendiri tanpa ganguan boy.......

DINNER TIME

ni ballroom tuk dinner kita orang.....snap gambor nih masa dinner lom start...amacam, cantek tak kengkawan....dinner start kul 8 malem.....habeh dinner kul 12 malam....

artis jemputan salleh yakob ngan haiza- daqdiqduq.....alah, yg nyanyi dangdut tuh...layan jelah..kira ok gak show diaorang...sungguh menghiburkan.....tabik spring tuk salleh yakob...

pada masa yg sama acara selingan pertandingan karaoke tuk anak kakitangan....ade 3 orang..boleh tahan dorang nyanyi....memuda lagi dah ade talent...boleh diketengahkan...kalau diasah bakat mereka, leh masyuk akedemi fantasia 10(kena tunggu sampei habeh sekolah)......ahakssssssssssssss......

backdrop dinner malam tuh........ dibuat sendiri oleh ajk.....cantek tak kengkawan..buleh lah...dinner kitaorang takde tema, so simple jelah......

makanan, best......cume yg tak best nyer cepat sangat berkemas.....kejap je dah habeh simpan semua makanan....aku nye pinggan lom clear dah diangkat nye.....effisien sangat.........

yg paling best, acara yg ditunggu iaitu cabutan bertuah...aku dapat vacuum cleaner.....tak sangka betul..seumur hidup aku, tak pernah dpt hadiah cabutan bertuah se-grand ini....suko tul lahhhhhh.....target nak dpt DVD player atau microwave, tapi boss aku lak yg dpt...takpelah, janji ade.....ade orang tak dapat langsung....kira bersyukur jelah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

p/s : gambar salleh yakob ngan haiza tengah nak umumkan grand prize tuk cabutan bertuah....yg tengah pegang kertas sambil umumkan nama tu aku punya COO....baik orang nye.

Merapu jap

tak tau nak citer ape. hari ni 1/2 hari je dah habeh dek meeting.
nak makan tengahari pun takde sekera. kepala sebu sbb banyak naa input dari boss...
tapi alhamdullillah, baru dpt habehkan keje tu.

nak citer sket pasal tempat keje aku nuh. kilang ni terletak jauh ke pendalaman. di kelilingi bukit bukau dan hutan dara yg maseh lom tercemar.walaupun dlm daerah seremban, tapi perjalanan tu amek masa sket lam 20 min. perjalanan....
kilang aku ni tmpt orang anto waste spt chemical, lubricant, acid dan memacam lagi lah utk di dispose kan......
after we transport, receive and process all of the item, than kami akan uruskan lah majlis pengkebumian nya di landfill yg terbentang laus di tepi kilang....
kat sini ade landfill seluas mata memandang. adelah dlm 20 ekar keluasan nya... so, depan belakang kiri kanan penuh ngan waste....takde permandangan lain......
sabar jelah.

aku kat sini kuli je.tukang beli barang tuk kompeni dan orang lain pakai....
apa-apa jelah yg diorang nak.biskut, jamban, lori, keter, rumput, binatang dan sebagainye..bak kata pepatah orang kat sini, aku ni tukang perabih duit company......hampeh tul dorang nih....
dia tak tau aku dgn paksa rela nye kena buat keje nih.hehehehheeeee...... pastu aku dituduh membazir.takpelah, itu dah menjadi tangggungjawab aku lah katakan.........

dah nak masyuk 9 tahun aku jadik tukang beli. tak dpt plak nak tukau scope lain.
cecuba nak jadi hr ke, admin ke, driver ke, despatch ke...apa-apa jelah......tapi tak dpt lahhhhh!!!!!!tak tau apsal...........

tetapi kengkawan, experience nih aku takleh dpt dari memana. kat tepi jln ke, pasar ke, post opis ke.............
padahal masa belajat kat 'U' dulu pun takde ajar subjek "tukang beli barang"...jadi penjual barang, pasar barng, buat buku akaun, bukak bank tu adelah......

tapi, ape-ape pun baguih jugak.sesambil buat purchasing, aku kene belajar pasal mende lainjugak....maklumlah, tukang beli ni related pada department lain.so, kena tau lah barang ape yg nak di beli.

p/s : sampaikan kontrek bersih jamban pun aku buat..............heheheeeeeeee....
tu belom lagi beli mende bukan-bukan. heheheeeee.....................................

AKTIVITI KORBAN TEMPAT KEJE

Sorilah yeik. ...citer nih mungkin dah basi sket sebab ia dah berlangsung secara live pada 1/1/2007 di tempat kerja aku..tapi aku baru je dpt download file gambor-gambor semasa peristiwa tu....

Aktiviti nih kira first time lah buat kat kompeni aku. sblm nih just sedekah lembu je kat masjid luar tuk korban. kali nih buat tuk diri sendiri.Pastu pd masa yg sama ade perasmian kelab sukan & social dan sempena program pertama tuk tahun nih....

Program bermula se-awal pukul 8 pagi tapi aku sampei at site pd kul 9.30 pg. Maklumlah, bangun lambat.Malam tadi New Year lah katakan....sibuk tengok bunga api kat umah jiran......

aku gi berdua ngan boy sbb dia sibuk nak tengok lembu kena korban....W(wife) & D(daughter) tinggal kat umah....aku sampei sumer tengah melapah daging. yg mamat pakai cap biru(kat gambor atas) tu asst manager dept. aku....dia daring je pasal aku dtg lambat.nasib baik dia slm ngan aku.kira ok lah tu.....

Memandangkan kakitangan dah cukup, so aku jadik pemerhati jelah masa tu...melayan anak aku yg sorang nih...

Tu aku nye tea lady (gambor sblh) tengah masak rendang daging.....sedap wooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

aku datang nak makan je sebenarnya. aku start acara makan dari kul 10 sampei lah kul 11.30.....memacam menu ade...makan je keje aku. maklumlah, raya kan.....

ni MD aku, baru sampei ke lokasi...(yg baju hijau tuh)...

tapi sebenarnya masa nih aku dah chow sebab ade jemputan kawin sedara di tampin.aku pinjam gambor dr member aku...so, aku takdelah dapat makan bersama-sama ngan MD...

sedih tul lah...tp ape nak baut. ade urusan yg perlu aku laksanakan iaitu makan kat kenduri kawin....hehehehheeeee......

p/s:Muda tak MD aku...baru jerk umur 35 tahun....tp jgn tak caya. bini 2 tuh.........

tu sumer salam ade makna tuh.....heheheeeeeeeeee...

sumer baca doa makan reramai...

sebenarnya semua dah tak sabar nak makan sbb menunggu lama sangat dr pagi tadi.....

aleh-aleh boss sampei lambat, kul 1.40....tu yg sumer tgh kebulor...nak makan dulu takut boss kecik ati....so, tunggu jelah...

pastu, semua melantak tak kesian laahhhhh.......tak pandang kiri kanan............

For the first time

first of all, nak ucapkan thank you very-very-very-very-very much pada NBK466 memperkenalkan aku pada dunia blog nih...
after percubaan and demi percubaan and another percobaan, everything seems fine jer.....
segan gak.......kalu ade apa-apa yg tak best, sila maafkan yeik.....I'll try to improve....

as usual, today is monday and everyone in monday blues including my boss laa.
most of the time sumer buat-buat sibuk ngan keje yg bukan-bukan especially aku ni haaa...
tak tau nak buat ape dari pagi sampei lah ke petang.....paler sumer tengah wenggggg!!!!!!!

yesterday gi main bowling ngan geng-geng lama setelah 3 tahun aku di perantauan....
for the first time dapat kumpulkan family for this small gathering (some of the geng can't make it, mabe ade hal lain)....unformal activities for this year opening....
congrates to all my old buddies......

my d & s paling happy.....dia lak yg menyebuk nak baling bola boling tuh.....
budak umur 4 & 3 tahun.....manalah tau nak main boling..my wife plak dah 5 tahun tak main boling. memanjang masyuk longkang jelah.... sian dia,muka toya jerk.......takpelah, nanti kita gi main lagi ngan anak-anak.....lagipun seronok tengok my kids happy.......